So what about those of us who aren’t classically beautiful?
Using the last guy’s logic, since finds you beautiful, you must hear this all the time and have grown weary of hearing it.
But alas, his thinking (or at least saying) I was gorgeous was not enough to keep him around after three dates. Intellectually we know that it only matters that think we are attractive, and what others think isn’t our concern.But deep down we also like to know that the person we are dating finds us attractive and is able to express that genuinely.The women believed heroic Captain Morgan Travis was on the lonely hearts website looking for love Ms Smith said: 'Despite having obtained substantial sums of money he then decided to say Morgan Travis had been arrested for money laundering and requested money in the guise of Sergeant James Wayne who said he was a friend of Travis.'Despite discovering Morgan Travis was a lie dreamt up by a Nigerian man called Tosin Olasemo she continued an online relationship with him after telling her he had committed the fraud because he had borrowed money from Nigerian militants and now owed them money under pain of death.Ms Smith said: 'Unfortunately she still felt an attachment to the defendant and stayed in contact for some time and sent him more money until a lady claiming to be the Danish wife of Olasemo contacted her.Yes, it can be overdone so that you think the man only wants to be with you because of your looks.
But if he tells you sincerely and regularly, somehow it makes more attractive too!
This was a very interesting article for me to read. I’m not sure how sincere it was now from one of them, but from the others I believe they were sincere and that has helped my confidence level even more.
I grew up with my older sister constantly calling me “dumb, stupid, and ugly.” Because of an eye problem, I believed it and developed very low self-esteem. So much so that I finally feel strong enough not to let men take advantage of me.
Olasemo, living in Cardiff on a student visa at the time of the frauds, was arrested January 2015 at his home and when police searched his computer found 'conversations with numerous other women as Travis'.
Detective Sergeant Jamie Holcombe, from the South Wales Police Economic Crime Unit, said: 'This case is an example of how an individual can sit in front of a computer and destroy another person's life.
” he said, “Beautiful women know they are beautiful and they hear it all the time.