Dating a roommate

He told me a few weeks ago that he wasn't over that betrayal – that he was over her, but not what happened.

Lately, he keeps saying something is off, which I'm confused about because he says I'm the person he’s always wanted, and that I'm amazing, beautiful, and that he wants to be with me.About three years ago he was cheated on, and that ruined him in a lot of ways.My guy roommate and I are debating the benefits/perils of picking a girl roommate for the extra room.Is it a myth that roommate dating is almost always disastrous?HAVE NIGHTS APART Sure, it’s convenient having your new love interest stationed across the corridor.

But that doesn’t mean you need to spend every night slumped in front of Netflix together with a jumbo bag of Haribo Sours.So make sure you’re both on the same page before you squeeze your bum into circulation restricting underwear and start doing your sex dance. ‘FESS UP TO YOUR HOUSEMATES Sneaking in and out of each other’s rooms has as excitement threshold of about a week.TALK ABOUT IT So you’re ready to dive into Loversville with an open heart and a bumper box of Durex Ultra, but have you talked about logistics? If you tell your housemates about your relationship sooner rather than later, chances are there’ll be more receptive to this burgeoning union. Nobody wants to see you tongue sandwiching while taking the bins out.If it’s blatantly obvious that sparks are flying faster than a Katie Hopkins insult on Twitter, the ‘forbidden fruit’ of dating might be worth a bite. ONLY TAKE THE RISK IF YOU THINK IT’S WORTH IT If one of you is ready to shop for matching sets of Le Creuset while the other had some inconsequential post-cocktail bonking in mind, it’s going to end in tears.And be warned: When you live together it’ll be much harder to hide under a duvet fort of mascara-stained pizza boxes whilst belting out snivelley renditions of ‘Someone Like You’. Without a plan, it’s easy to slide into a hairy legged comfort zone before you’ve really had a chance to get to know each other.It's the one with Luke Evans – about the man who created Wonder Woman.