Keep fit, hit the gym, eat healthy, and taking pride in what you wear.
NOTE: If you want to attract one “special” girl and make her your girlfriend we shared 20 steps to getting a girlfriend here.
From this group interview you’ll discover what are the BIGGEST attraction killers, how to avoid them, and learn the secrets to building attraction to get the number closes you’ve been longing for. If you’re perceived to be of higher status around the people you interact with, you hold the magical power to attract infinite women into your life.
Keep your chin up and make slow, non-jerky movements when gesticulating and turning your head. You can understand why self-loathing guys struggle to get girlfriends.
– When talking to a girl, ask questions to get her qualifying herself to you. If you play the victim and hold a negative view on everything, women will repel you.
So without further ado, lets start by finding out what the experts think are the BIGGEST attraction killers: The Biggest Attraction Killers (voted by 21 Female Dating Experts!
) #1 Not holding eye contact / poor attention span #2 Too much sexual intent #3 Bragging & Talking too much (tied third place) #4 Risky topics – i.e ex girlfriends, sex & politics #5 Being too drunk #6 Bad hygiene #7 Being over eager #8 Not being present – i.e.Remain locked in eye contact and follow with a light smile to relieve the tension and avoid looking like an expressionless garden gnome. Tell her she looks like a low class stripper in that outfit.By holding eye contact and smiling you are subtly expressing your sexual desire for her in a confident way. You want to be looking calm, cool and calculated under pressure. Rather than complimenting her and asking vanilla questions like “what do you do for work? Or if she’s standing on her own, tell her she’s a loner and has no friends. ” If you happen to drive a Ferrari, don’t feel the need to tell a girl straight away. Tell a girl “You’re the perfect combination of sexy and cute” (a great quote from Crazy Stupid Love) and don’t apologise for saying it.So don’t treat your interactions with women like an interview. Rather than ask boring questions like “Where are you from? “You sound like you’re an Essex girl with that terrible accent of yours”. They want to be rescued from the boredom of everyday life. Pretend you’re hiding from FBI agents, and need a girl’s help to escort you to the bar unscathed.Concentrate on showing your funny side, make lighthearted conversation and tease her senseless. If you can be that guy and provide the experience a girl craves, she’ll find you attractive. Joke around, be spontaneous, tease them, and tell interesting stories about your life. The ability to excite a girl is like a drug – give her what she desires, and she’ll keep coming back for more 😉 Ok so those are the 5 traits!To crack the secret code of attraction you have to start by learning from your mistakes.