But on the off chance it would crush your wife to be told everything, just tell her about Ms. After a few tense years, we started couples therapy.
During therapy, my husband revealed that he was never in favor of the openness.
(Granted, I didn't tell him EVERYTHING I do down there.) My understanding was that there was no causal relationship, assuming no serious injuries occur. Peter Shalit, a physician in Seattle and a member of the Gay and Lesbian Medical Association.It's also the first time I've heard anyone associate fisting with constipation—typically when fisting is mentioned in the same sentence as constipation, FIST, it's as a cure.Be honest, ASSHOLE, just this once: Is the destruction of your wife a bug or is it a feature? Because cheating on this scale isn't about succumbing to temptation or reacting to neglect.It's about the annihilation of your partner—a (hopefully) subconscious desire to punish and destroy someone, anyone, fool enough to love you.So long as those desires are consciously eroticized, fully compartmentalized, and safely expressed, you could have done everything you wanted, ASSHOLE, without harming anyone. It seems like you want out, and your wife definitely deserves better, so cop to one affair, since copping to all of them would crush her—or so you think. I made an open relationship a requirement at the start.
People are often way more resilient than we give them credit for, and convincing ourselves that our partners can't handle the truth is often a convenient justification for lying to them. While my husband had jealousy and trust issues, he hooked up with others regularly.And you can find a guy who wants an open and egalitarian relationship, which is what you deserve. Background: I, a 21-year-old male, enjoy receptive fisting. Question: I saw my doctor recently, and he tried to link my enjoyment of anal sex to my constipation. Fearing Inner Sanctum Tarnished "There are many myths about anal sex, but this is the first time I've heard this one," said Dr.You're a handsome couple—thanks for enclosing the lovely picture (sometimes it's nice to see the face of the person I'm responding to!)—with a long history together, and here's hoping things work out.But almost immediately, he began talking about how he wanted to hook up with others. I feel tremendous guilt for even thinking about splitting up, so I keep hoping we'll stumble on the thing that will work for us.