However, if you prefer to move to the phone before meeting or if you’re talking to someone who prefers that, I would recommend the following.When I offer advice on the first date, I recommend lots of planning (see my post on first date conversations that I mentioned above).It felt like I’d missed my window and we were stuck in some type of phone-only relationship.
The online dating dance usually includes similar moves no matter who catches your eye. Eventually someone drops their phone number and the other responds.
When it comes, you exchange flirty little messages for a few days and learn about one another.
Surprisingly, the first phone call in an online dating relationship can be tricky even if you’ve been feeling comfortable up until this point.
There’s just something about hearing her voice and being put on the spot that can suddenly leave you tongue tied or sounding like a caveman.
Listen If you are doing 90% of the talking, you can bet she is getting more than a little bored on her end.
You can win some serious points if you show authentic interest in her life and experiences.Don’t worry, there are some basic phone etiquette rules that will help you soar through this part of the relationship.Take the Initiative and Make the First Call Female empowerment is great, but when it comes to dating, a lot of women still expect guys to make the first move. When you get her phone number, show her that you care by giving her a call in the next 48 hours.One thing I would recommend is start preparing to move from the phone to the first date.I remember getting into a situation where I had been talking with a woman on the phone so often that asking her out suddenly felt awkward.Think about the things you’ve been talking about in your messages or the things in her profile that you have in common.