You can have matching profiles, get on like a house on fire over email, and then have zero chemistry in real life. “Online dating should be an enjoyable and fun experience.Don't take it too seriously and prepare yourself to meet plenty of nice, friendly people who you absolutely don't fancy. Many people go on around 30 dates before they meet someone they really fall for online.
“We live in a soundbite society so the first 30 words of your profile really count,” says Peter.
“Try to avoid clichés in your profile because, let’s face it, everyone wants someone who's loyal and we all like walking on the beach at sunset.
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“Set yourself a limit, but keep at it, it’ll be worth the effort,” says Peter.
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It is also possible to search using your image online, so use a photo that doesn't appear anywhere else on the internet if you value your privacy.” Denise Knowles from says a good guide is remembering that the same rules apply both on and offline.
“Let a friend know where you’ll be and when, and arrange a time to text to let them know you’re OK,” she says.
“Be careful what you say about yourself,” says Honey.
“Could someone use those details to find you on Linked In, for example?
Ask your friend to keep an eye out for overused phrases.” Honey adds: “It's a good idea to emphasise your activities as people tend to be attractive to those who convey health and vitality.” It’s true – two of the most commonly used words in profiles on Ok Cupid are yoga and (slightly more intimidatingly) surfing.