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Nonetheless, good insight liking "values" to this discussion.
Staying true to your values is indeed a wonderful way to stay authentic to who you are at the core, while also reacting to feedback necessary to accomplish desired goals.
(They probably will, of course, that I don't think that should be your motivation.) I say work on yourself but honestly, trying to wait till all is great is setting yourself up to fail as well.
When your married and have a problem with yourself you cant just go away for a month to sort yourself out, married people have to deal with things together. To me, "what you hold true to, and what you change" depends on your goals. As for what the "right" other person will do - that too depends on the ratio of what they are giving to what they are getting.
Rather, I had the idea of "value" in mind in the pick-up sense. Sometimes I have a challenge in juggling three different "languages", as my readers speak a mix of plain English, "Academic", and "Pick-up".
In the future I will redouble my efforts to make the distinction among terms even more clear (for myself and others).
When a relationship is a good deal for both partners, they stay and trade together. Take a moment (or longer) and figure it out.2) Decide what you will give in return - There is no such thing as getting something for nothing. So, what are you planning to bring to the exchange? Think about all of the strengths, benefits, and positive qualities you have to share with a partner. It is unrealistic to expect to buy a mansion with pocket-change. Who cares if you can get the girl by temporarily being self confident, if it isnt already who you are chances are your lack of it will show up in your relationship causing your lady friend to be disapointed,and finally, if its not who you really are why the hell would you want to be with a women who made that a priority?
When it isn't, at least one eventually chooses to goes elsewhere. Have a clear idea about what you are going to give back to them.3) Check your expectations - Take a good look at what you want versus what you're willing to give. But, it is also foolish to spend a million dollars on a shack. And, eventually, enjoy a mutually-satisfying interaction :)Go to Plus the fact that the article says advice for (real) men, what the hell does that mean? I mean is she saying that real women only want self confident men? I also think that attending to the specific wants of your desired partner(s) is important too.
For those of you who might not know, there is an interesting discussion going on in the Psychology Today blogosphere. White's message is that figuring out what you want in a relationship (and being authentic to who you are) is more important than guessing about what others want you to be (and trying to fit those expectations).
The discussion was initiated by an article from Dr. In that article, she discussed how men can improve their love lives by focusing on what she proposes women really want (a man who is confident and high in self-esteem, as opposed to one who is simply materially wealthy). White in a response called "Who Cares What Women (or Men) Want - What Do You Want? Both authors make compelling cases for their perspective.
If you can reach the goal you set with who you are, then no change or improvement is required. I'm not saying the concrete approach of goals/feedback doesn't work--I just want to make sure the deeper role of values doesn't get left out. I too believe that "values" are an important guide and precursors to your goals. Some of my readers, being versed in "pick-up", use different terminology. He or she has demonstrated high value - or has high value.